I was planning on writing something similar to this and having it ready by the beginning of this month, but with the month of “Thanksgiving” appearing out of nowhere I waited.. My original idea was three things to ask yourself before 2020 is over. I can’t quite remember the questions, but I’m sure it runs along the lines of “Who, What, or How do I tackle 2021?” With those three questions in mind, I stepped out of my comfort zone. This is a huge deal to me since I don’t really stick well with risk and according to my zodiac sign that is true.
How did I get to this point?
When I look back on this year, visualization has been a key addition. Since visualizing I have felt more direction towards the future I want to have. It’s one that involves motivation, studies, and getting in tune with my feminine energy.
What encouraged me?
Starting back in September, I have been using my drive to work to listen to Women Entrepreneurs, Motivational Speakers, and more. They all have said something that makes me think about what I want and how I want to live.
Who supported me?
Surprisingly enough three books were all the support I needed. I began with “The War of Art” by Steven Pressfield to learn how to say “No” to the resistance that gets inside our head. I followed up with “Flow” by Mihaly Csikzentihalyi to learn about the flow in everyday lives around the world. And the one I’m currently reading “Girl Code” by Cara Alwill Leyba, has lead me to be more inspired by other women starting businesses, having a child, or standing up for what they believe in.
I took a step out of my comfort zone, and starting in 2021, I will be a business owner. I don’t have anything to lose, only something to gain. By dreaming of a life I will have someday, ideas and feelings have come and presented themselves onto new wavelengths. These wavelengths have been residing deep in my core and within months down to this day, everything I could possibly want right in my gravitational pull.
Somehow I did that…
I will be pursuing my first, Esthetics. I started into this field by forcing myself out of my comfort zone. Today I’m comfortable. I no longer want to be comfortable. To increase my standard of life my studies of esthetics can only get more serious. I will learn through the skin of everyone, enhancing interactions between esthetician and guest, know what’s trending, and even understand lifestyle choices.
Besides tackling my career, I’m also tackling my personal habits. I have to find my flow to be able to be a balanced energy throughout this next chapter. My productivity has increased, now my time needs to be filled. And, If I am going to be a form of wellness, I can’t just appear to be one. I will become one.
I believe this is going to be the hardest yet most rewarding time I can go through..
My feminine energy is something I will improve. I propose being the best that I can be mentally, emotionally, and physically. I want my cup to run over, to inspire others, to welcome and share feminine energy.